Re: Burning Questions!!!

by jessijennings Wed Oct 01, 2008 11:24 am

I’m using pads! Lol and a padded tea shirt bra and I slept in a hoodi last night it wasn’t so bad but my Dh woke me up and was like.. your wet go change. It really seems to be like a personal insult to him.. I swear its not as bad as what he does..
But thanks for making me not feel like a freak

by eileen bauer Wed Oct 01, 2008 11:33 am

it freaks men out becasue they used to be his and now they are feeding machines...lol my hubby was all freaked out at first and I wasn't breastfeeding with my second. the funny thing is though he was trying to tickle me one night in bed and I squirted him. now he knows so he is careful...lol but served him right...lol don't let DH get to you abotu the leaking thing, tell him it's not like his wet dreams...lol

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by jessijennings Mon Oct 27, 2008 2:49 am

k here's a tmi but ill just spit it out, when does your clit .. work again? mines dead and it freaks me out.. I'm not trying to do anything with it its just.. its dead to the world pleasure wise.. plenty of dull pain if it gets hit when im wiping but otherwise .. yeah so when can i and for that matter my husband be expecting to enjoy my body again, not that im in a hurry im just hoping this isnt a "well some things change after a baby" kinda area?

by rocknrollmommy616 Mon Oct 27, 2008 9:01 am

depends. I had a catheter during my induction and that really affected that area. I forgot Jessi, did you have your little boy vaginally or through a c-section? If vaginally, I wouldn't even consider having sex yet! I was told not to insert anything vaginally, tampons, penis, what have you, until after my 6 weeks postpartum checkup. I'd be careful with that kinda stuff Jessi, especially if you tore down there.

by jessijennings Mon Oct 27, 2008 12:49 pm

vag but i had a catheter too and an internal monitor I was told the same thing its just discerning that everything down there hurts its not like he came out up by my clit..

by mythreesons Mon Oct 27, 2008 2:00 pm

no but all those areas are connected, I think the clit takes the brunt of it because it pokes out a little bit more maybe?

by rocknrollmommy616 Mon Oct 27, 2008 3:57 pm

Well, I had the catheter and the internal monitors as well and it took me like 3 weeks to feel fully normal without hurting when I went to the bathroom or anything. Mine is okay now and doesn't hurt at all. I know what you mean about the pain hun. Sometimes I would lay a certain way that would put pressure on it and it just hurt so bad! I thought I had a UTI, turns out I was still healing and I was fine! I had a third degree tear from the delivery and I didn't feel fully fine til about 2 weeks ago. The stitches will feel like they are being pulled at for a couple more weeks. Mine fell out sometime between week 2 and 3 and now i don't feel anything. So, cheer up. Give it some time. Of course mine sucked cuz once I felt normal again, I started my period. Go figure... Also, I am experiencing pain in my abdomen from the diastasis. Anyone else feeling that little bit of pain? And my ribs seems to catch more often that normal. Is that normal after birth?

by Guest Tue Oct 28, 2008 6:49 pm

Jessi-the cath could have alot to do with loss of feeling and dull aching down there since that is where they insert it....I never had a cath though thank God

by jessijennings Tue Oct 28, 2008 7:17 pm

I seriously wish I hadn't had all those things coming out of my ... I had expected a child to come out of there and some extra but nothing else...

by Guest Tue Oct 28, 2008 7:30 pm

I am kinda surprised they didn't make me have a cath with this delivery because she told me my bladder was full and she thought that was why Jeremiah was not coming down as quickly and she had me try to pee in like a flat bedpan type thing which barely anything came out....

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